Marriage therapist · EFT trainer
I train couples therapists around the world in Emotionally Focused Therapy — and I teach couples the tactical skills to create the connection they deserve.
George Faller, LMFT
01 — The Method
A simple way to know your role in any hard conversation. Most fights aren't about the topic — they're about two people wearing the same hat at the same time.
You've got something to say and you need it to land. Your job is to make it safe to hear.
You're not on trial and you're not fixing it. Your job is to get it — before you answer it.
02 — From the book
Five insights from Brave Love, Great Sex.
How we were loved as kids shapes how we love now. A small disconnection can feel like real danger.
One needs closeness before sex. The other needs sex before closeness. Both wait for the other to go first.
Slow the moment down. Separate what happened from the story your brain told you.
Swap criticism or shutting down for "I miss you" and "I'm afraid I don't matter to you."
Safe love isn't boring love. Secure couples are more open, playful and satisfied in bed.
By George Faller & Dr. Laurie Watson · as featured on Next Big Idea Club
02 — The book
Harnessing attachment theory for passionate relationships
Does great sex always fade over time? Research says otherwise. Securely attached couples have the most frequent sex — in the greatest variety, with the least inhibition. But that level of intimacy takes communication, vulnerability and trust.
With Dr. Laurie Watson, I show how to identify negative cycles, replace protective strategies, shift perspectives, enhance sexual conversations and build real closeness.
03 — Listen & learn
Couples therapy for lasting connection — with Dr. Laurie Watson. The real conversations about love and sex you've always wanted to have.
Listen →My online EFT training platform for couples therapists — thousands trained in staying calm and de-escalating high-conflict couples.
Train with me →Free relationship resources, the method explained, events and everything else — all linked from the page.
@fallergeorge →Love is a skill.
Get in good reps.
04 — About
I'm a renowned trainer of couples therapists in Emotionally Focused Therapy, and a sought-after supervisor and therapist.
I served as a New York firefighter during 9/11 — and that experience is exactly what I teach from. Therapists learn from me how to stay calm and de-escalate high-conflict couples, the same way you'd work a scene that's already on fire.
My online training platform, Success In Vulnerability, has trained thousands of therapists, and I travel across the globe giving couples tactical skills to create the connections they deserve.
With Dr. Laurie Watson I co-host the podcast Brave Love, Great Sex — Couple's Therapy for Lasting Connection, and together we wrote the book of the same name.